Are you in a situationship?

Sounds like a relationship

You talk about what you are, you make real plans and you feel settled. Whether or not you have used the word, this looks like a relationship — or one in the making.

Still the talking stage

There is real interest, but some things are still unclear. That is normal early on. Keep making plans — and if it stays vague for weeks, ask where things stand.

Classic situationship

Closeness without a label, last-minute plans and a future nobody mentions — this has the marks of a situationship. If you want more, the kindest thing you can do for yourself is a calm, direct conversation.

Deep in situationship territory

You are doing most of the work and feeling more anxious than happy. Decide what you want, ask them plainly, and take the answer seriously — even if it is “I don’t know”.